Is it important?

As stated in the title, "Is it important?" to be written by Jian Wei Loh, he argues that the most important things in his life are family, friendship and love. The author is going to begin by asking the question of what do people think is the most important stuffs in their lives? is it achievements? Perfect scores? or Money? Jian states that none of those in the list should be. Why is he saying that? He looked in the mirror today and found out that, he didn't know who he is? or who he was? who he intended to be and who he had become. It certainly sounds like one of those lost teenagers who are looking for themselves. I guess the answer lies in place. A place no other than themselves. But he couldn't find it. So he's in some identity crisis?

"Is the person that i am becoming really the person i wanted to be?" Seriously I'm not sure. Who do i wanted to be? A successful guy with loads of money and girls? Thats what they said isn't it? Guys will only be bothered by 2 things. Money and girls.

First up, money. What is up with money? Can money buy me happiness? maybe. Maybe not. It depends on how did one get the money. Through some dirty paths isn't gonna give him/her happiness. No way. Unless he/she is insane. But well, People like that do exist. As in for me, i think money can't buy you all the happiness that you wanted. But without it, you will be suffering. A quick example would be you got some kind of weird sickness. Maybe not you, someone else that you care about. Without money, how are you supposed to help them? with your strength? No. It doesn't work that way in the world today. Money comes first. With money, you can provide them with professional health care, and certainly comfort. What can be worse than seeing the ones you care leaving you and you can't help it?

Aite.. enuff of those crap.. i had enuff.. hahaa.. was just trying to write a proper.. errr opinion piece i supposed.. but ended up.. i got lazy again! hahaha.. me and my random mind.. maybe I'm going crazy.. well.. i can't help myself. so.. psychologists might.. hahaha.. actually i don't really get that stuffs about teenagers having trouble finding themselves? what the hell? We know who we are.. and why are we in wherever we are doing watever we are doing.. but is that really what we wanted to do? To a certain point maybe..

What's the point of studying engineering.. it's tough.. I didn't mean other majors are easy.. but why engineering? Cause it's a professional degree.. Without it, you can't find a job. WIthout a job, u will be BROKE! and live a life like what they said.. WAI LAO.. haha.. yeah.. so that is why we are studying.. it doesn't interest me at all.. maybe sometimes.. but.. i find some of them really irrelevant. it just makes me feel sick.. and questions why am i doing this? can't we just do whatever we want to do?

The answer is... WE can! But at a great price to pay.. You just don't dare to do it! to be rebellious? yeah.. for all these years.. following rules and stuffs.. and what did you get? i guess the result isnt there yet.. it might be a good one.. such as getting a degree and getting a good job.. But that wouldn't even mean a thing if you have no one to share with. ISn't it? who cares? That's the part where your family, friends and love ones comes in.. They are the ones that can share it with you.. they will be happy for you.. and proud of you.

People fall in the long journey. You just can't help it. Stand right back up when you fall. That makes you tougher.. each and every time. although it might be just a little. don't ever be afraid to walk again. Unless you can fly. ahhaha..

Aite.. So.. you guys watched a litre of tears? it's good in a way.. not that its sad.. but it's motivating! disabled being more hardworking than you? owh gosh.. you got to do better than that.. Yes.. the point of this paragraph is that appreciate what you got. and get the best out of your life. Although it might not be as good as others.. Make it better!

Been struggling with assignments and projects and readings? yeah.. it is definitely a pain in the ass. It's the first time this semester that i handed in a incomplete assignment. I did whatever i could. If its not good enough.. let it be.. At least i did the best.. Sometimes we shouldn't expect too much from ourselves.. do our best and hope for the best would be good enough.. there's always a " what if its not enuff? " LET IT BE! you did your best didn't you? If you were to blame.. admit it.. face it.. How hard can it be? * really hard XD *

THats it for now folks. Hope you will join me again with all my craps! =) Jian out!